WrongReason1:YouNeedSomethingNewtoObsessOverNowthattheweddingplanningisover,whatwillhairweaveyoudowithallyourfreetime?Suddenlythere&39;sastrongurgetofillitwithanotherbigproject.Don&39;tmistakeboredomwithbabycravings.Takeupahobby--whetherit&39;ssearchingforhousesontheWeborlearninghowtowallpaperyourbathroom.Sure,you&39;veproventhatyoucanstickwithsomethingandfollowitthroughtotheend,butgetthemostoutofthisfreetime(andalonetime)whileyouhaveit.WrongReason2:You&39;reFreakedOutAboutFertilityNomatterhowwellweknowourbodies,mostofushavenoideaaboutafundamentalaspectofourhealth--ourabilitytoconceive--untillansolutionweactuallystarttotry.It&39;sthisnaggingfeelingthatmakesusanxioustojumpintothebabyring.Buttakesomeofthepressureoffyourselvesandletnaturetakeitscourse.Somecoupleshavetowaitawhiletoconceive,somegetpregnantonthefirsttry,andsomewithouteventrying!Assumethebest,andonlystarttheprocesswhenyou&39;retrulyreadyforthepitter-patteroflittlefeetinthehouse.WrongReason3:EveryoneIsHavingThemComeon.What&39;sthatsayingaboutallyourfriendsjumpingoffabridge?Thisisadecisionthatwillchangeyourliveslikenoother.Makeacademicrankingsureyou&39;rebothonthesamewavelengthaboutthebigissues:Who,ifanyone,willstayathome?Canyourlivingsituationhandleit?Asolid,unitedfrontisthekeytobeingperfectparentstoakid.JustbecauseSamandAnnaarereadydoesn&39;tmeanyourtwosomeisreadyforathreesome.AndjustbecauseBritneydidit,doesn&39;tmeananything.
